In a shocking and unexpected twist, Today co-host Dylan Dreyer and her husband, Brian Fichera, have announced their separation after almost 13 years of marriage. The revelation has left fans heartbroken and searching for answers, especially considering the couple’s public image as a happy family. The news comes after months of speculation and subtle signs of tension, culminating in an emotional announcement from Dreyer herself.

The Shocking Announcement

On Friday, July 18, 2025, Dylan Dreyer took to Instagram to share the news of her separation. In a heartfelt statement, she addressed her fans, saying, “For many years I have shared my family with you all—the highs and lows. The ups and downs. And all of the blessings and beautiful memories in between.” She explained that the decision to separate was made a few months ago but emphasized that she and Brian are committed to co-parenting their three children with love and respect.

“I am incredibly grateful for the support and love you’ve given me through it all,” Dylan continued. “For that reason, I want to share with you that a few months ago, Brian and I made the decision to separate. We began as friends, and we will remain the closest of friends. Most importantly, we will continue to co-parent our three wonderful boys together with nothing but love and respect for one another.”

Despite the public announcement, there is no official word on whether divorce proceedings have been initiated. Sources close to the couple have confirmed that they’ve been separated for months, but still live together and continue to co-parent their kids. A close source mentioned that Brian Fichera, a freelance cameraman, has taken some time off from work to focus on his family during this transition.

The Sudden Exit and Emotional Toll

Dylan Dreyer’s on-air appearance following the announcement has raised questions. She was seen on Today without her wedding ring, which prompted many fans to notice the subtle sign of her personal life shift. The absence of a farewell episode or tribute montage has also caused confusion and speculation among viewers.

What made the situation even more painful for fans and her colleagues was the emotional toll it took on everyone involved. Sources close to the Today show’s production shared that several of Dylan’s co-hosts were blindsided by the news. “This wasn’t just a co-worker,” one anonymous staff member confided. “This was family. We all feel blindsided.”

A Decade Together and the Strains of Public Life

Dylan Dreyer and Brian Fichera first met when Dylan was the First Daughter, and Brian was working on her father’s presidential campaign. Their relationship blossomed over time, culminating in a wedding in 2012. For over a decade, the couple shared a picture-perfect family life, which was often showcased on social media and during public appearances.

However, as fans began to notice, the pressures of their high-profile careers, including Dylan’s demanding job as a Today co-host and meteorologist, and Brian’s freelance cameraman work, created a strain on their relationship. Despite their efforts to stay connected through texting during their hectic schedules, Dylan shared in interviews that communication was sometimes limited to texts, leaving them to navigate significant moments remotely.

In 2022, Dylan admitted that the challenges of balancing their careers with family life had taken a toll, stating, “Our schedules mean we don’t see each other much, but we text all the time. Sometimes it’s even easier to have an important or deep conversation via text because we get all our thoughts out without being interrupted.”

Recent Signs of Strain

The couple’s separation didn’t come as a complete surprise to some fans, who had noticed Brian’s absence from social media and public appearances in recent months. His lack of online presence sparked concerns about the state of their marriage. However, Dylan attempted to squash those rumors by sharing images of their family during Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, where Brian made appearances in the background, which momentarily quelled the speculations.

But in May 2025, with fewer appearances from Brian, it became apparent that something was amiss. Despite efforts to keep things private, fans began to notice the distance between the two, leading to heightened curiosity about their relationship status. This build-up of tension eventually culminated in the couple’s decision to announce their separation.

Family Life and Co-Parenting Focus

Dylan and Brian share three children: sons Calvin, 8, Oliver, 5, and Russell, 3. In addition to dealing with the emotional strain of their separation, the couple has had to focus on their children’s well-being. Dylan has also shared her challenges raising Calvin, who was diagnosed with Celiac disease in 2023. As a mother, she’s been dedicated to advocating for her son’s health, ensuring his diet remains free from gluten to avoid potentially severe reactions.

“It’s not just about food,” Dylan said in a past interview. “It’s about protecting his health and making sure everyone around us understands that he needs to be cared for.”

What’s Next for Dylan Dreyer and Brian Fichera?

As Today fans process the shocking news of the couple’s separation, questions loom about what comes next for Dylan Dreyer. Will she continue her role on Today as usual, or will the separation prompt a shift in her career focus? As a beloved figure on the show, her return to work has been met with mixed emotions, with viewers expressing their support while also wondering how this personal change will affect her professional life.

For now, Dylan and Brian remain committed to raising their children together, and their co-parenting relationship appears to remain strong. The future of their individual lives remains uncertain, but for now, they are focused on navigating this difficult time with grace and compassion for one another.

As the news continues to unfold, fans will undoubtedly stay tuned for further developments, offering their support to Dylan as she navigates this major life transition while remaining dedicated to her role on Today.