On Today with Hoda & Jenna, Jenna Bush Hager became visibly emotional as she recounted the wrench of leaving the apartment where she and her husband, Henry Hager, raised their three children and endured some of their toughest family moments. The conversation began when co-host Hoda Kotb revealed she and her two daughters were also moving that week, which prompted both women to reflect on the unanticipated grief tied to leaving a home filled with memories.

Jenna described the move she and Henry made two years earlier and how hard it was to walk away. She recalled a specific, poignant evening when the family sat together on the couch in an otherwise empty apartment and she began to weep. That couch, she said, held the weight of “beautiful things and hard things” — including the deaths of her grandparents, Barbara and former President George H. W. Bush, in 2018. Jenna said watching her daughters draw stick figures and comfort her during that time was a small, healing detail she’ll never forget. The rawness of the memory left her voice breaking as she explained that the pain of leaving comes from how beautiful those years were: “It’s gonna hurt a little, but it’s okay,” she said, adding that the hurt signals how meaningful the place was.

Hoda responded in kind, sharing that she, too, had been struck by the emotional weight of packing up the life she’d built in her upper Manhattan apartment. She described the ritual of lighting a candle and sitting at her desk each morning — a routine that suddenly felt bittersweet knowing it was the last time she’d do it in that space.

Hoda walked viewers through the mental images that flooded her — carrying her daughters home for the first time, watching them learn to climb stairs, and the holidays and daily routines that accumulate into a life. She urged viewers to resist rushing through endings and transitions, advocating instead for a deliberate pause to take in the space and its memories, a practice she praised Jenna for having done.

The episode’s emotional tone was underlined by recent personal history: Hoda herself previously opened up about her younger daughter Hope’s frightening health emergency in early 2023, a memory that resurfaced for viewers as evidence of how much life and heartbreak can be contained within four walls. Jenna and Hoda’s exchange emphasized the universal, often surprising sadness that comes with change — even when that change represents growth or necessity, like needing more space for growing children.

Throughout the segment both hosts alternated between trying to lighten the mood and letting the tears show, underscoring the idea that public figures can experience deeply private grief in very public ways. Jenna’s closing message was measured: the ache of leaving will pass because the home’s love and memories endure elsewhere. The pair’s candid moment resonated with viewers, prompting a flood of comments and reflections about how transitions — whether joyful or painful — deserve time and attention. The segment ended as both women encouraged audiences to sit with their own endings rather than hurry them away, framing the move not simply as a logistical change but as a meaningful life milestone.