DWTS: What To Know About Derek Hough & Hayley Erbert's Relationship

No dazzling lights. No final curtain call. Just a man quietly stepping away from center stage—for love.

Fans of Dancing with the Stars were hit with an emotional shockwave this morning when Derek Hough—beloved dancer, Emmy-winning choreographer, and recently appointed judge—announced he would not be returning for Season 34. The reason? His wife, Hayley Erbert, is once again facing a serious medical challenge, and Derek has chosen to put everything else on hold to care for her.

In an emotional post shared on social media, Derek wrote:

“Hayley is the strongest woman I know. But even warriors need rest. Right now, my place is by her side—not behind a judging table.”

The announcement came just weeks after fans noticed Hayley’s sudden disappearance from public appearances and social media. It was later confirmed that she had experienced complications stemming from the health crisis that nearly claimed her life last year. Though the couple has kept the specifics private, sources close to the family say she has returned to a specialized treatment program for an undisclosed condition—one that requires constant support.

For Derek, the choice was clear.
“He didn’t hesitate,” said a longtime friend. “When the doctors said she’d need long-term care again, he cleared his entire calendar. He told producers: ‘Family comes first.’”

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His decision means stepping away from the judging panel at the height of his TV career. Having brought fresh energy and emotional depth to Dancing with the Stars since joining as a judge, Derek had quickly become a fan favorite—not just for his dance expertise, but for the empathy and authenticity he brought to every critique.

But behind the scenes, producers were already bracing for the possibility.
“Derek had been incredibly open about Hayley’s recovery,” a source from the show shared. “We knew he might need to step away. What we didn’t expect was how graceful and quiet his exit would be. No drama. Just love.”

Still, with Season 34 fast approaching, the show must go on—and the question on everyone’s mind is: Who will take his place?

Enter Nigel Lythgoe.

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Best known as the sharp-eyed, sharp-tongued judge on So You Think You Can Dance, Lythgoe is no stranger to the world of high-stakes competition and emotional storytelling through dance. According to inside reports, producers are in talks with Nigel to temporarily—or perhaps permanently—fill Derek’s seat.

“Nigel brings decades of experience, a strong presence, and a deep love for the art form,” said one executive. “He’s different from Derek, yes—but he commands respect. And right now, that’s what the show needs.”

Reactions from fans have been mixed—understandably emotional about Derek’s departure, but curious to see what dynamic Nigel might bring to the ballroom.

“He won’t replace Derek,” one fan tweeted. “But if anyone can honor the legacy and keep the dancers on their toes, it’s Nigel.”

As for Derek and Hayley, they’ve retreated from the public eye—choosing quiet walks, healing music, and evenings at home over spotlights and stages. Still, their love story continues to inspire millions. From their dreamy wedding just last year to the heartbreaking turn of Hayley’s health, theirs is a bond that has weathered more storms than many couples face in a lifetime.

In his post, Derek closed with a simple line that said it all:

“This season, I’m dancing a different kind of dance. One where every step is for her.”

And in those few words, fans saw the true heart of the man who once lit up the ballroom floor: not just a dancer, not just a judge—but a husband, holding the hand of the woman he loves, every step of the way.

Love, it turns out, is the most powerful choreography of all.