Blake Lively is making headlines again, but this time, it’s not for her glamorous red carpet looks or high-profile projects. The actress has found herself at the center of controversy following an old director’s commentary from A Simple Favor resurfacing, in which she openly discusses grabbing her co-star Henry Golding in an intimate scene. The irony of the situation is undeniable, given the recent allegations and claims she has made regarding her own experiences in Hollywood.

Blake’s “Happy Place” – A PR Move?

Before diving into the resurfaced video, Lively was seen in Connecticut over the weekend, visiting a local donut shop and declaring it her “happy place.” Fans were quick to point out the stark contrast between this cheerful public outing and her recent statements about suffering from fear, trauma, and anxiety. In her lawsuit, Lively detailed how she has been struggling to leave the house due to the emotional toll of her experiences. Yet, here she is, smiling and baking as if nothing had happened.

The disconnect is hard to ignore, especially as she continues to make public appearances, from Saturday Night Live’s 50th-anniversary celebration to the Penguin documentary promotion. For someone allegedly battling deep emotional distress, she seems remarkably present and engaged in public life. Many are questioning whether this is a genuine recovery or a strategic PR move to control the narrative.

Resurfaced Commentary: The “Nut Grab” Controversy

In the now-viral audio clip from A Simple Favor’s director’s commentary, Blake Lively candidly discusses an on-screen moment where she forcefully grabbed Henry Golding’s private area. Laughing about the incident, she states, “Can I grab your nuts? Like really hard? Not because I want to, but because she would.” The interaction was apparently encouraged by director Paul Feig, who instructed her to grab “even harder.”

While this might have been played off as humor at the time, it doesn’t sit well today. Where was the intimacy coordinator? Would this have been acceptable if the roles were reversed? These are the questions now being asked as Lively’s past behavior is being re-examined. The hypocrisy of her public stance on personal boundaries and respect is being called into question, especially given her recent legal battle where she has accused another actor of inappropriate behavior.

Blake’s History of Questionable Decisions

This isn’t the first time Blake Lively’s choices have raised eyebrows. She previously faced backlash for her plantation wedding, an event that romanticized the dark history of the American South. She also stirred controversy in 2015 when she released an expensive line of baked goods that oddly referenced Black history and slavery. One infamous product was the $168 “Black History Month” muffins, which many found highly insensitive.

Her pattern of problematic behavior continues to cast doubt on her sincerity. Critics argue that while she is quick to call out others for their missteps, she fails to acknowledge or take accountability for her own.

The Hypocrisy of Hollywood’s #MeToo Movement?

Many see this situation as yet another example of Hollywood’s selective outrage. When Lively accuses someone of misconduct, the world listens. But when she herself is caught making inappropriate jokes and actions, the industry stays silent. This double standard is becoming harder to ignore, and fans are calling for accountability.

At the end of the day, actions speak louder than words. Blake Lively’s latest controversy may just be the tip of the iceberg. As more of her past behavior comes to light, the question remains: will Hollywood hold her to the same standards she demands of others?

Stay tuned as this story continues to unfold.