Dylan Dreyer’s Ex-Husband Breaks Silence on Their Split

In a stunning revelation that has rocked Today show fans, Brian Fichera, the ex-husband of meteorologist Dylan Dreyer, has spoken out for the first time about the reasons behind their controversial split. In an exclusive interview, Fichera shared a raw and emotional account, claiming that fame “completely changed” Dreyer, transforming the woman he once knew into someone he “could hardly recognize anymore.” The couple, who announced their separation in July 2025 after 13 years of marriage, had long been seen as a beloved duo, making Fichera’s candid words a bitter pill for fans to swallow.

Fichera, a former NBC cameraman and producer, painted a picture of a marriage strained by the pressures of Dreyer’s rising stardom. When they met at Boston’s WHDH station, their bond was grounded in shared ambitions and mutual support. But as Dreyer’s career skyrocketed—first as a Weekend Today co-anchor and later as a prominent face on Today’s third hour—Fichera says their dynamic shifted. “She became this larger-than-life figure,” he said, his voice heavy with regret. “The Dylan I fell in love with was still there, but fame brought a new side—one that felt distant, consumed by the spotlight.”

According to Fichera, the demands of Dreyer’s high-profile role created an ever-widening gap. Long hours, public appearances, and the constant scrutiny of fame left little room for their relationship. “We barely saw each other,” he admitted, echoing a 2022 interview where Dreyer herself noted they often communicated via text due to conflicting schedules. Fichera described moments of disconnect, where the warmth of their early years was replaced by a focus on her public persona. “It wasn’t just her—it was the world around her. The attention, the expectations. It changed how we were together.”

The couple’s decision to list their $2.5 million New York City condo in January 2025, months before their announced split, hinted at trouble. Fichera now reveals that by then, they were already living separate lives under the same roof, trying to shield their three sons—Calvin, Oliver, and Rusty—from the strain. “We wanted to keep things normal for the boys,” he said, emphasizing their commitment to co-parenting. Yet, he confessed, “I didn’t know who she was anymore. The woman I married was slipping away, and I couldn’t reach her.”

Fans have been divided by Fichera’s claims, with social media platforms like X buzzing with reactions. Some expressed sympathy, writing, “Fame changes people—it’s sad but real.” Others defended Dreyer, arguing that her demanding career doesn’t diminish her character. “She’s still the same Dylan who shares her heart with us,” one fan posted. The controversy has reignited discussions about the toll of fame on personal relationships, with many pointing to the couple’s amicable post-split moments—like celebrating Dreyer’s 44th birthday together—as proof of their enduring bond.

Fichera insists there’s no bad blood, only heartbreak. “I’ll always love her,” he said, noting their focus on raising their sons with love and respect. For Dreyer, who has remained silent on the specifics of their split, the narrative of fame’s impact adds a complex layer to her public image. As fans grapple with this bitter truth, the story of Dylan and Brian serves as a poignant reminder of the sacrifices demanded by stardom. Their once-shared journey, now fractured, leaves admirers hoping for healing—for both the family and the woman who lights up their screens.